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No More Shrinking: How Heartbreak Led Me Back to Me


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A woman sits peacefully at the edge of a pool overlooking the ocean, embodying the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Embrace your imperfections as you move towards healing and wholeness.

I gave him everything—my time, my patience, my softness, my love. I believed in him. I rooted for him. I held space for him, even when it left me empty.

And still… it wasn’t enough.


I found myself constantly pouring into someone who didn’t know how to hold what I was offering. The love I gave so freely? I ended up receiving the bare minimum in return. Crumbs, really. And for too long, I convinced myself that they were enough.


But one day, I had to face the truth: Loving him will cost me, me.

As women, we’re taught to nurture, to forgive, to keep giving. We put our partners first and often give ourselves what’s left over. We call it love. But it’s not love if it requires self-abandonment.


After the heartbreak, I didn’t bounce back overnight. I broke. I grieved. I questioned my worth. But in that breaking, something sacred began to rise.

I booked a one-way ticket to healing… and it started in Bali November 2023. Not just palm trees and pretty views—but real soul work.


Bali was my beginning. The beginning of choosing me. Of showing up for myself the way I used to show up for everyone else. Of reclaiming my softness and rewriting what love means—starting with the love I give myself.


Now, I’m in my self-care, self-love, and a little bit of selfish era…And I won’t apologize for it.


Because the next time love finds me, it will add to me—not take from me. It will be peace, not pressure. It will feel like home—not like hiding.


And if you’ve been there—if you’ve ever loved too deeply and lost yourself in the process—this is your reminder: You can choose you. You can begin again. And your healing matters.


If you’re ready to take your healing to the next level, I invite you to join me this November in Bali for the Heal and Hustle Retreat.


🌿 Week One (Nov 8–15): For Grieving Mothers

🌿 Week Two (Nov 15–22): For Women Ready to Reclaim Balance & Joy

Only 12 spots per week. Private villa. Deep connection. Real transformation.

$2750.00 for 7 days.


This is your sign. It’s time.


 
 
 

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Meet Latasha

Meet Latasha Harris, RN — Founder of Heal Not Hustle
turned her pain into purpose, and her hustle into healing.

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Latasha, is a phenomenal woman whose story is a living testament to what it means to rise from the depths of pain with grace, strength, and softness. After losing her son to cancer in 1997, she did what many strong women do—she kept going. She buried her grief beneath the weight of hustle, convinced that staying busy would keep the pain away.

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For 26 years, she pushed forward without ever pausing to heal.

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But healing has a way of calling us back—and Latasha finally answered. Her journey inward began not long ago, sparked by the realization that while she had built a successful life, something was still missing: peace. She hadn’t just lost her son; she had lost parts of herself along the way. Now, she's reclaiming every piece with intention, softness, and truth.

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Latasha created the Heal Not Hustle Retreat to offer what she never had—a sacred space for women to pause, feel, and begin again. Whether you're grieving a child, facing unresolved trauma, or simply exhausted from carrying life’s weight alone, Latasha’s story reminds you: you don’t have to hustle through healing.

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With her calming presence, nurturing spirit, and raw honesty, Latasha invites women into a space where healing is not only possible—it’s powerful. Her ability to blend real-life grit with soulful compassion makes her both relatable and inspiring. She understands that healing isn’t linear, and that strength doesn’t always look loud. Sometimes, it looks like rest. Stillness. Boundaries. Breath.

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Through Heal Not Hustle, Latasha is building more than a retreat—she’s building a movement. One that teaches women that healing isn’t weakness; it’s the ultimate form of self-love.

With Latasha by your side, your healing journey will be held with love, led with truth, and guided by someone who truly understands.

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